Tehseen Shahmiri
Everyone has faced difficulties and hardships in their lives. We all are surrounded by people because we live in a society and we have to interact with them. Now, there are few people who we consider close in that bond there comes a family, best friend and partner.
The basic thing is one should know him/herself better than anyone else because in the end you’re the one who is going to make decisions and one should believe in oneself. Whatever decisions you are making right now is going to affect you in long run either positively or negatively.
It is not easy to know, who is genuine with you or who is faking it and it is the exact moment when your intuition comes and if you’re not feeling something good about the situation or person you must trust your sixth sense at that time. But when you trust your instincts it is better to keep all the other important things in mind, who was there in your difficulties and who was waiting for his/her turn to ruin you.
People wear masks to enter your life so that they can act nice and make you fool by their sweetness and the moment they get an idea you’re in trouble or you’re not in a contact with them anymore, they sell your secrets publicly. It is better not to disclose your secrets to every single friend because you don’t know who can turn into the worst nightmare.
Yeah, we all know when there is a piece of emotional baggage we need someone who would listen and understands our situation. So it is important before making friends try to share little secrets with them which would not affect you in the long term if they ever disclosed your secrets in public. People get jealous when they see you doing great and having better achievements in life even though they are in a stable place.
Humans are everywhere but humanity is rare to find in this era because everyone is stabbing their friends and they are trying to devalue and degrade innocent people. Everyone is gifted with a brain and one should always do their best to protect themselves from any kind of harm, if your intuitions are telling you to be aware of something just trust and don’t suppress it.
We all have one life to live and we must try our best to live it to the fullest and try to balance it. If it is hard to find good and kind-hearted people, just try to be the one and make an example that we can start a change by being nice and genuine people. When we do good we expect good but it is better to be fair enough in every situation and don’t expect anything in return, it will make your life easy to live and maybe you will find peace.
Some people will appreciate you and some will make you feel low, but always trust in yourself and be sure of it, your loved ones want you to be a successful person and want to see you as a happy soul. Life is a long journey make it sure, in the end you should be proud of yourself.
(The author is student at Kashmir University)
