Er. Shahzada Athar Ishaq Shah
Love is one of the most profound emotions that humanity experiences, and its reasons can vary from individual to individual. Whether love stems from beauty, kindness, wisdom, or character, each reason can be linked to a higher and more sublime source. When exploring these reasons, one name stands out above all others: Prophet Muhammad (PBUH). Let us delve into the various reasons people love and understand why, theologically, philosophically and rationally, the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is the most deserving personality to be loved.
1. Love for Beauty
One of the most common reasons for love is beauty, whether physical or spiritual. Humans are naturally drawn to what is aesthetically pleasing. Many people fall in love with others simply because of their physical appearance. However, when we discuss beauty in its purest form, we must consider both outer and inner beauty.
Theology
The Qur’an describes Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) as being of sublime moral character:
“And indeed, you are of a great moral character.” (Qur’an, 68:4). Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) inner beauty was unparalleled, making him the most lovable for both his appearance and his soul.
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is renowned not only for his spiritual and moral excellence but also for his physical beauty, which has been described in glowing terms by his companions and recorded in classical Islamic literature.
Several Hadiths provide detailed descriptions of the Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) physical appearance:
Anas ibn Malik said about the Beloved Prophet (peace and blessings upon him) “I have never seen anyone more beautiful than him before or after.”
In another narration he described the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) as having a “face like the moon” (Sahih Muslim). This comparison to the moon underscores his exceptional beauty, likening it to the luminous and captivating light of the full moon.
Abu Huraira reported that the Prophet (PBUH) had “a broad forehead and a well-defined face” (Sunan Abi Dawood). Such descriptions suggest a balanced and striking appearance, with features that were both distinct and harmonious.
The beauty of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was so captivating that it inspired poetry from his time to the present, and will continue to inspire hearts and minds until the end of time.
Hassan ibn Thabit, a renowned poet and companion of the Prophet, composed verses praising the Prophet’s beauty. Some of his famous lines are
“My eyes have never seen anyone more beautiful than you,
No woman has ever given birth to anyone more handsome than you,
You were created free from every fault,
As if you were created just the way you wished.”
“Whenever his radiant forehead appears in the darkness,
It shines like the blazing lamp of the night,
It fills the houses of Allah with light and mercy,
And it fills the hearts of the believers with piety and truth.
God purified his creation and character, and his stature,
No one has ever shared his virtues in creation.
Glory be to the One who fashioned him from humanity,
He is beyond what people have described and increased in beauty”.
Another poet and companion, Abdullah ibn Rawaha, extolled the physical and spiritual beauty of the Prophet (PBUH) in his poetry. His verses celebrate the Prophet’s nobility and grace, portraying him as the ideal of beauty in both form and essence. Here’s a well-known excerpt:
“If he had not brought clear signs and proofs,
His very face would have told you the story”.
These lines reflect Abdullah ibn Rawaha’s admiration for the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), portraying his outward beauty as a sign of his inner truth and prophethood. His face alone, without the need for miracles or signs, would be enough to reveal his divine mission, highlighting the Prophet’s unmatched beauty and essence.
Imam al-Busiri, a renowned 13th-century Sufi poet from Egypt, in his famous poem the Qasida al-Burdah (The Poem of the Mantle), honoured his pen by writing:
“He reached the highest heights with his perfection,
He removed the darkness with his beauty,
All his qualities are excellent,
Send blessings upon him and his family”.
In Shifa’ Shareef, Qadhi ‘Ayaaz provides an extensive account of the Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) physical characteristics:
Physical Appearance: Qadhi ‘Ayaaz describes the Prophet (PBUH) as having a “perfectly balanced physique, a full beard, and a broad chest” (Shifa’ Shareef). The descriptions emphasize not just beauty but also the strength and dignity of his form.
Grace and Elegance: The book details how the Prophet (PBUH) moved with a natural grace and how his presence commanded respect and admiration. His posture and demeanor were such that they reflected his inner virtues and magnanimity.
Aura of Beauty: Shifa’ Shareef also mentions that the Prophet’s (PBUH) beauty was not merely in his physical features but was complemented by an aura of divine light and serenity, which made his appearance even more captivating.
That is the apex of prophetic beauty, that even the thought of a flaw doesn’t exist;
This is the flower without any thorns, this is the lantern without any smoke
Never mind a flaw, even the possibility of a flaw doesn’t exist in RasulAllah (PBUH). (Aala Hazrat)
The descriptions of Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) beauty are not confined to a single source but are found across Quran, Hadith, poetry, and classical Islamic literature. His beauty was perceived as a reflection of his inner nobility and divine grace, capturing the admiration of those around him. The Quran, Hadiths, poetic tributes, and the detailed accounts in books of Seerah collectively portray Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) as possessing an unparalleled and sublime physical beauty, which, combined with his moral and spiritual virtues, made him an epitome of perfection in every sense.
Philosophy
Philosophically speaking, true beauty transcends mere physicality. It is a reflection of harmony, purity, and balance between inner and outer attributes. The Prophet (PBUH) possessed this balance. He was known for his radiant face, but his kindness, patience, and love for humanity were what truly captured hearts. His beauty was holistic, touching not just the eyes, but also the soul.
Rationality
While physical beauty is subjective and varies by culture, moral beauty is universally admired. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) showed unparalleled compassion, humility, and kindness, which rationally makes him a far greater object of love than someone whose appeal is merely physical.
2. Love for Kindness and Compassion
People are often loved for their kindness. A person who shows compassion, empathy, and love for others attracts admiration and affection.
Theology
The Qur’an describes Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) as a mercy for all creation:
“And We have not sent you, [O Esteemed Messenger], except as a mercy to the worlds.” (Qur’an, 21:107).
His entire life was dedicated to serving humanity, showing love, and promoting justice. Even those who wronged him were met with forgiveness and compassion. His example of mercy extended to all, regardless of their status, faith, or actions.
One of the notable stories that highlights Prophet Muhammad’s (peace be upon him) kindness and mercy is the story of Umm Ayman.
Umm Ayman (R.A) was a servant of the Prophet’s family who had been with them since the time of the Prophet’s father, Hazrat Abdullah. She was deeply loyal and had served the Prophet’s family with dedication.
When the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) became the leader of the Muslims and was well-established in his role, he did not forget those who had been loyal to him. Even though Umm Ayman was a former servant, he treated her with immense respect and kindness.
One day, Umm Ayman came to the Prophet (peace be upon him) seeking support. In response, the Prophet (peace be upon him) not only ensured that her needs were met but also showed her profound respect and kindness. He would often visit her and inquire about her well-being, and he always spoke to her with utmost dignity and warmth.
The Prophet’s treatment of Umm Ayman exemplified his deep sense of gratitude and respect for those who had been with him through difficult times. His kindness towards her, despite her status as a former servant, is a testament to his broader message of equality and compassion.
This story illustrates how the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) valued and honored those who served him, demonstrating his mercy and respect for all individuals, regardless of their status or background.
Philosophy
Philosophers often argue that the highest form of love is selfless love—where one cares for others not for personal gain but purely out of compassion. The Prophet (PBUH) embodied this in every aspect of his life. He went without food so others could eat, and he forgave even his fiercest enemies. This level of compassion is rare and unmatched in human history.
Rationality
It is rational to love someone who enhances the lives of others through kindness. The Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) kindness was not confined to his followers but extended to his enemies, animals, and the environment. Such universal compassion is a rational basis for love, making him an unparalleled figure of adoration.
3. Love for Wisdom and Knowledge
Many people love those who are wise and knowledgeable, seeking guidance from those who possess insight into the nature of life and the universe.
Theology
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was not just a teacher but the final Prophet, imparting divine wisdom that would guide humanity for eternity. The Qur’an itself is considered the ultimate source of knowledge, revealed to him by Allah. He was the conduit for God’s message and lived by the wisdom he imparted.
“The Lord of Mighty Powers (directly) conferred on him (perfect) knowledge”. (Quran 53 : 5).
One example of the great wisdom and knowledge of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) can be seen in how he dealt with disputes and guided his community toward justice and fairness. A well-known incident is the story of the rebuilding of the Kaaba. During the restoration of the Kaaba, the various tribes of Makkah were disputing over who would have the honour of placing the sacred Black Stone in its position. The tension rose to the point that bloodshed seemed inevitable.
Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), though still young at the time, was known for his wisdom and was called upon to mediate. His solution was simple but remarkable. He placed the Black Stone on a cloth and asked the leaders of each tribe to hold a corner of the cloth, lifting it together. Then, with all tribes having participated, he himself placed the stone in its final position.
This act demonstrated profound wisdom. He not only averted conflict but also upheld the dignity and unity of all tribes, teaching them the value of collaboration and shared responsibility. His wisdom in resolving such sensitive matters showcased his deep understanding of human nature and his ability to maintain harmony even in the most challenging situations.
This example shows that his knowledge was not limited to religious teachings but extended to practical wisdom that could guide everyday life, fostering peace, unity, and fairness in society.
Philosophy
In philosophy, wisdom is seen as the ability to apply knowledge in a way that benefits oneself and others. The Prophet (PBUH) taught not just theoretical knowledge but practical wisdom. He taught how to live a life of balance, moderation, and justice. His teachings encompass every aspect of life, from personal conduct to societal governance.
Rationality
Rationally, wisdom is the most enduring form of attraction. Knowledgeable individuals can enlighten others and help solve complex problems. Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) wisdom has guided millions for centuries and continues to do so. His teachings on justice, equality, personal conduct and governance are as relevant today as they were 1,400 years ago.
4. Love for Integrity and Honesty
Honesty and integrity are qualities that inspire love and trust. People naturally gravitate toward those who are truthful and trustworthy.
Theology
The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was known even by his enemies as “Al-Amin” (the Trustworthy) and “As-Sadiq” (the Truthful). His honesty was so well-established that even before the announcement of prophethood, the people of Makkah would entrust their valuable possessions to him.
One compelling example of Prophet Muhammad’s (peace be upon him) integrity and honesty is the story of the honesty he displayed even before he received the revelations.
One famous incident illustrating this occurred during a business trip to Syria.
While on this trip, Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was entrusted with the responsibility of managing trade goods and finances. Despite the fact that he had not yet announced to be the prophet, he was known for his meticulous and trustworthy handling of transactions. When he returned to Mecca, he was praised by those who had entrusted him with their goods for his honest and fair dealings.
One particular story recounts a time when he was involved in a business transaction where the buyer had not fully understood the terms. Despite his own financial loss, he chose to clarify the situation and ensure the buyer was fully aware of the terms, demonstrating his unwavering commitment to honesty even at his own expense.
This unwavering commitment to honesty and integrity, even before he became the Prophet, set the stage for the deep trust and respect he would earn throughout his prophetic mission.
Philosophy
Integrity is one of the highest virtues in philosophy. A person of integrity acts in accordance with moral principles, even when it is difficult. Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) never compromised on his principles, even in the face of adversity. His life is a testimony to the highest level of moral integrity.
Rationality
Rationally, a person of integrity is more reliable and trustworthy, making them more deserving of love and admiration. Prophet Muhammad’s (PBUH) honesty and trustworthiness make him a person worthy of love, as these qualities form the foundation of any genuine relationship.
5. Love for Leadership and Courage
Many are drawn to leaders who are courageous and stand up for justice and truth, even when it’s unpopular.
Theology
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) was not only a religious leader but a political and military leader as well. His leadership was based on justice, compassion, and adherence to divine guidance. He led his people through some of the most challenging times, always prioritising fairness and moral principles.
“Surely, a (Glorious) Messenger from amongst yourselves has come to you. Your suffering and distress (becomes) grievously heavy on him (blessings and peace be upon him). (O mankind,) he is ardently desirous of your (betterment and guidance. And) he is most (deeply) clement and merciful to the believers”. (Quran 9 : 128)
Philosophy
Great leaders are those who combine courage with wisdom. Philosophers like Plato and Aristotle have emphasized the importance of virtuous leadership. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) led by example, showing unparalleled courage during battles, yet always opting for peace and negotiation where possible.
Rationality
Courage is a rational reason to love someone because it demonstrates strength of character and the willingness to sacrifice for others. The Prophet’s (PBUH) courage in the face of adversity makes him a model leader and one worthy of the deepest admiration and love.
6. Love for Personal Benefit
Many people form relationships based on personal benefit, whether it’s emotional, material, or spiritual. While this may seem self-serving, it is a natural human tendency to love those who offer assistance and support in times of need. The greatest benefit, however, transcends worldly gains—it is the salvation of one’s soul and the eternal happiness in the Hereafter.
Theology
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) is granted the supreme honour of intercession on the Day of Judgement. The Qur’an mentions this privilege:
“Who is it that can intercede with Him except by His permission?” (Qur’an, 2:255).
Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) will be the one granted permission to intercede on behalf of believers, a unique and unparalleled benefit. This is referred to as “Shafa’at al-Kubra” (the Greatest Intercession). His intercession will be for the salvation of mankind, offering hope to those who might otherwise be doomed.
Philosophy
Philosophically, the greatest act of love is to offer ultimate assistance when it matters most. In this case, intercession is the highest form of benefit, as it is not about temporal gains but eternal salvation. By guiding people towards righteousness in this world and then advocating for them in the next, the Prophet (PBUH) shows the greatest compassion possible.
Rationality
Rationally, loving someone who can offer eternal benefit is an understandable and even logical choice. In a world where most relationships are transactional in nature, the intercession of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) offers a benefit that no one else can provide: the possibility of entering Paradise and avoiding eternal punishment. This makes him, rationally speaking, the most beneficial person to love.
The promise of intercession on the Day of Judgement elevates love for Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) to a level that transcends all worldly benefits, offering believers the ultimate hope and assurance for the Hereafter.
“What a delightful intercession is yours, praise be!
How sinfulness takes a loan from piety, praise be!
The craftsmanship of nature’s hand, how exquisite it is,
What a beautiful portrayal of my beloved it is, praise be!”
Conclusion
Love is a complex emotion with many causes, but when we analyse the reasons for love—be it beauty, kindness, wisdom, integrity, leadership or even personal benefit —Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) stands as the most deserving personality to be loved. Theologically, he was chosen by God as the final messenger, a role that reflects the highest form of divine love and favour. Whole belief system is dependent on it as Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) says “None of you truly believes until I am more beloved to him than his father, his children, and all of mankind.”(Sahih al-Bukhari)
Philosophically, he embodies the highest virtues of human existence, offering a perfect model for others to follow. Rationally, his life and character provide a compelling argument for why he is the most deserving of our love and admiration. His legacy is not just for Muslims but for all humanity, making him the ultimate embodiment of love itself.
Concluding with the powerful words of Khalid bin Waleed, delivered to the Byzantine Empire during the Battle of Mu’tah, as he introduced his beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him):”Al Mursalu ala qadril Mursil”. Ala Hazrat beautifully translated it into these poetic lines.
“From head to toe, they embody God’s grace,
No one compares, they are the perfect human in this place.
The Qur’an proclaims them the essence of faith,
My soul declares: in them, my belief has its base.”
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